Is Fundraising Selling? Many say no. I say YES!

Ellen Bristol

October 22, 2026

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Ellen Bristol

Ellen Bristol is the Leaky Bucket Guru. After 20 years selling zillion-dollar mainframe computers, she founded Bristol Strategy Group to help nonprofits plug the leaks in their fundraising. She is the author of Fundraising the SMART Way and developer of the Leaky Bucket Assessment.

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We’ve been arguing about this ever since 1995, when I got into fundraising consulting. Plenty of people clutch their pearls at the very idea: “Sales is nasty! Fundraisers are pure of heart!”

Here’s the thing. Selling and fundraising do the exact same job: they generate income. What differs is how they operate and what the income is for. (Sasha Dichter has a great post on this, and it’s worth a read.)

Without income, no organization survives. Not a nonprofit, not thhe local diner, not a software company, not even the federal government. Even with no paid staff, you need supplies, software, registration fees, and of course, snacks.

Take two dreams

Say you open a little coffee shop. You’ll pay for the beans and the food, plus insurance, furniture, and utilities, even if you’re the only cook, server, bookkeeper, and janitor and you don’t pay yourself a dime. (Please don’t do that.)

Now say you open a little animal rescue. You’ll need feed, vet care, land, property taxes, charitable registration in most states, and a dozen other things, again even if you don’t pay yourself. (Please don’t do that either.)

Both also need money to get noticed. “Free” social media still costs you time. If nobody knows you’re there, nobody buys your coffee or adopts your animals.

If you can’t bring in enough to cover all that, your dream won’t last long. The coffee shop’s income comes from selling coffee. The rescue’s comes from individual donors, grants, corporate sponsors, and more. The sources are different, but the job is the same.

That’s why I see fundraising as a specialized form of selling. Once you see it that way, I hope you’ll feel a little less reluctant to make that first call, or even the proverbial ask.

What I learned from selling mainframes

Many of you know I used to sell mainframe computers, typically six- and seven-figure deals. When I compare that work with what major gift officers do, the overlap is hard to miss.

Corporate sales reps need to…Major gift officers need to…
Identify prospects who need what we sell and like how we sell and support itIdentify prospects who care about our mission and how we deliver on it
Cultivate relationships for long-term satisfactionCultivate relationships for long-term satisfaction
Ask for the orderAsk for the gift
Accept the prospect’s decision graciously, yes or noAccept the prospect’s decision graciously, yes or no
Keep the relationship going: solve new problems, offer innovations, earn future purchasesKeep the relationship going: show mission impact, share innovations, earn future gifts
Turn happy clients into ambassadors for the companyTurn happy donors into ambassadors for the mission
Respect the client’s interests, budget, business health, and future visionRespect the donor’s interests, capacity, financial health, and charitable priorities
Get up tomorrow and do it all over againGet up tomorrow and do it all over again

Look at it this way, and fundraising and sales don’t seem so different after all, do they?

If this got you wondering how your own fundraising “sales process” stacks up, the Leaky Bucket Assessment will show you where you’re strong and where you’re losing ground. It only takes about seven minutes, and it’s free.

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